It was the size of the house that drew Paula and her husband, Andrew, to the home they have lived in for the past nine years. With five children, they were looking for a six bedroom home in the area that could accommodate them all.
‘Home to me is a place where you feel completely comfortable. It’s a safe space with your loved ones. We spend a lot of time entertaining and it’s where we gather as a family. It’s something I miss because I travel a lot. Home is the place I long for,’ says Paula.
Paula grew up in Eltham and her parents still reside in the suburb. Having previously lived in East Malvern, Paula wanted to be closer to home.
‘From Kew, it’s very easy to get on the Eastern Freeway and go to visit them. That was really important to me,’ says Paula.
Juggling the time demands of her role as a director with motherhood hasn’t been difficult for Paula because she says her children are all very self sufficient and independent. They range in age, the youngest, Sophia is 16, then there’s Millie, who is 18, Ben is 20, Oliver is 23 and Max is 26.
Paula explains motherhood changed her in ways she didn’t expect and it made her appreciate the relationship she has with her own mother.
‘I don’t think you really know about mother love until you have a child. I think motherhood has also softened me a bit and I’m certainly very organised as a result of being a mother! But I also learned very early on to surrender to the kids. I had to forget about having a perfect house all the time,’ says Paula.
Coming from a family of five, Paula says she once said out loud ‘I would like to have five children’ and then laughs as she playfully warns to be careful what you wish for. She explains it’s mostly been smooth sailing having a large family, but that’s not to say there haven’t been a few hiccups along the way.